Abstract
Starting from the question “How does it feel to be a woman and a mother in pandemic times?”, this study invited women who are mothers, in virtual social networks, to share their experiences regarding parental adaptations due to social distancing caused by the COVID-19 pandemic. The objective was to reflect on the experience of being a woman and a mother in the context of COVID-19 and of social distancing, pointing out some resonances of the pandemic scenario in the subjectivity of these women. The study was based on the psychoanalytical framework, both in the construction of the research and analysis of the reports and in their discussion. The analysis of about 340 collected reports, which ranged from a brief sentence to long paragraphs, pointed to a series of questions, analysis topics, and reflections. The pandemic, and the resulting social distancing, seems to have placed a magnifying glass over the anguish of women who are mothers, showing ever-present feelings and suffering. The reports highlighted women’s overload with child and house care tasks, the guilt, loneliness, exhaustion, and the feeling that there was no space in this context to “be a woman,” and it extends to aesthetic and vanity related questions especially.
Keywords:
Woman; Maternity; Psychoanalysis; Pandemic; COVID-19